im not sure i understand the predicament cali, you want to like nice guys but you only like pricks?
She wants to like nice guys but she's not sexually attracted to them, she's addicted to the high she gets from sex with the hot guys. Known as "gina tingles"
Oxytocin levels rise with these men and she bonds with them. This doesn't happen with nice (ie not sexy) beta guys.
The hot guys she gets off with and loves to be with are a small group of the entire human male population, they are universally attractive, most women will do anything to be with them because they excite them in ways that no nice guy can.
Since there are few men like this (Alphas) there are not enough of them to go around and basically women share these guys, and they know it.
These men won't commit and don't treat women well because they are just vaginas to them and vaginas are plentiful and made available at all times. This makes them bad boys.
The women know the bad boys won't commit but they can't help themselves because the sexual desire is so strong. They know they are better off with a beta but being with him doesn't produce the same feelings as when she's with her stud.
Women are knowingly sharing a relatively small pool of alpha men among themselves.
The theory is the 80/20 rule in that 20% of the men are dominating 80% of the women - most notably in casual sex.
Women are not sexual prudes. They are only prudish with their betas because they don't feel the lust like they do with the bad boy.
These women that make regular men wait for sex or make them earn it don't behave the same way with alphas. One night stands are common as are romps behind the dumpster in back of the club where they just met. They will suck their dicks within minutes of meeting.
Basically it comes down to power. When a man worships a woman and will do anything for her she has the power and she will resent the man eventually - women are naturally submissive and WANT to be dominated by a superior man.
With bad boys the situation is different, the bad boy is indifferent to the woman but she has crazy strong desire for him and that gives him the power.
I challenge Caligirl to dispute any of this.