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I ran into a high school friend at the gym the other day. We probably would not have recognized each other if we were not fb friends.
We talked for 10 minutes...he said "We'll have to grab lunch sometime." I probably said something like "sure yeah we'll do that. We'll bring ***** too (mutual friend who asked me to lunch 2 years ago when i moved back and i have put off) I know I said something about during the SPRING or when the weather is better or something to that effect. I figured it was one of those social niceties that people do and never come to fruition.
Nope. My bad. Posted on fb good to see him and all I know is now I am having lunch with the both of them Tuesday at 11:30.
Honestly I remember very little about them. I mean, we were friends, but neither were in my "inner circle" so to speak.
He is now chief of medical bioengineering for U of SD. She works for the school of mines. Both are married..at least one has kids. I have no idea what I will talk to these people about. Nothing I will have in common with them. I liken it to going to a HS reunion which I have never done.
If I hadn't already put girl off for 2 years I would find a way out, but I know it's good for me to start developing more relationships here.
Anyway...have you gone to a HS reunion or hooked up with old friends? Did you like it? Were people the way you remembered them? DID you remember them?
I'm a little nervous about this. I think if I treat them as virtual strangers I will be fine..otherwise I will be feeling awkward for not remembering more.
We talked for 10 minutes...he said "We'll have to grab lunch sometime." I probably said something like "sure yeah we'll do that. We'll bring ***** too (mutual friend who asked me to lunch 2 years ago when i moved back and i have put off) I know I said something about during the SPRING or when the weather is better or something to that effect. I figured it was one of those social niceties that people do and never come to fruition.
Nope. My bad. Posted on fb good to see him and all I know is now I am having lunch with the both of them Tuesday at 11:30.
Honestly I remember very little about them. I mean, we were friends, but neither were in my "inner circle" so to speak.
He is now chief of medical bioengineering for U of SD. She works for the school of mines. Both are married..at least one has kids. I have no idea what I will talk to these people about. Nothing I will have in common with them. I liken it to going to a HS reunion which I have never done.
If I hadn't already put girl off for 2 years I would find a way out, but I know it's good for me to start developing more relationships here.
Anyway...have you gone to a HS reunion or hooked up with old friends? Did you like it? Were people the way you remembered them? DID you remember them?
I'm a little nervous about this. I think if I treat them as virtual strangers I will be fine..otherwise I will be feeling awkward for not remembering more.