I have a huge crush...

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RogueScholar
F0cker, just get tickets to some popular show/concert and ask her if she wants to go. You can play it off that a friend couldn't use them and you only have guy friends, so she gets first dibs. Even if she's not into you right now, she'll say yes to an evening at the opera and there's your opening to win her heart.
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That's not a bad idea, RS. Although, I kind of want to know if she's interested for sure or not. I was simply going to ask her, "How do I get to know you?"
 
Ask the dealer that comes after her if she is single first before you make any moves. Give him a good tip.
 
Pavy
Ask the dealer that comes after her if she is single first before you make any moves. Give him a good tip.
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I don't really think that matters to me, Pavy. If she isn't, she'll tell me. I'm pretty sure she is though.
 
MonkeyF0cker
That's not a bad idea, RS. Although, I kind of want to know if she's interested for sure or not. I was simply going to ask her, "How do I get to know you?"
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I like it, Monkey. Which most likely means that it's no good. But in the context you describe, it seems appropriate.
 
MonkeyF0cker
That's not a bad idea, RS. Although, I kind of want to know if she's interested for sure or not. I was simply going to ask her, "How do I get to know you?"
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Bingo.
 
MonkeyF0cker
That's not a bad idea, RS. Although, I kind of want to know if she's interested for sure or not. I was simply going to ask her, "How do I get to know you?"
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Personally I think that's a little open-ended. While well-intentioned, it instantly puts her on the spot to construct the framework of a first date without warning and without gauging her interest. As the man you should approach her with a plan in mind, allow her to simply agree to time spent together, and in the process you'll get to know one another.

I'm no Casanova, but I'm one of the few people on GL who has guys hitting on them regularly. I hate when guys want me to brainstorm a date idea, at least if I'm approached with a date idea, I know the guy isn't just chumming the waters (usually).
 
I'm not really looking for her to brainstorm date ideas. I have some ideas. She likes to shoot trap. I was thinking about going to the Gun Store and shooting full autos then maybe dinner and a few drinks. I guess i'd follow up that question with, "Can I take you out?"
 
Sounds like a plan, Monkey. Girls who like to shoot guns are a rare and precious breed.
 
MonkeyF0cker
I'm not really looking for her to brainstorm date ideas. I have some ideas. She likes to shoot trap. I was thinking about going to the Gun Store and shooting full autos then maybe dinner and a few drinks. I guess i'd follow up that question with, "Can I take you out?"
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Ahhhh shooting trap and skeet is so much fun...so hard though. I really want to get into it and get better...I suck.
 
I sort of echo RS's sentiments here.

I really hate, "how do I get to know you". It sort of says, "I'm in awe of you." Bad way to break the ice with a chick you're into. Sort of gives her the upper hand right from the start. You want to show interest but you never want her to know that you're all into her shit.

I really like the gun range idea. Even though she's already used a firearm it's still adventurous and is a solid way to get the adrenaline going. Very unlikely she declines an invitation for drinks afterwards (unless of course one of your hot casings flies down the front of her shirt and burns one of her nipples off).

I can not stress this next sentence enough: Women love confidence. Being confident is very different from being a cocky asshole though. There is sort of this delicate balance you have to find.

Have a plan and stick with it. Have a specific date and time ready for her when she says "when?" You don't want to get caught being unprepared if she show's interest. When you ask her to hit the gun range for the afternoon, don't ask her as if you're expecting a "no". She's going to say yes.
 
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MonkeyF0cker
That's not a bad idea, RS. Although, I kind of want to know if she's interested for sure or not. I was simply going to ask her, "How do I get to know you?"
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Do not ask her how you get to know her. That is a little weird.

Your best bet is to ask her if she would like to grab a cup of coffee on her break.
 
1. Do NOT take any advice from Matty Rain in this thread on how to approach women. LOL.

2. The show/gun ideas are great. Anything she has revealed to you along the lines of her interests would be a GREAT approach to asking her out. It lets her know you've been paying attention to more than just her sweet, succulent breasts.

3. This is ADORABLE!!!
 
MonkeyF0cker
I have a huge crush on this girl who works at a casino here. She's a cute blonde from California. She seems extremely down to Earth and intelligent - two characteristics that are not only incredibly attractive but an absolute rarity in girls in Vegas. I have such a crush that I'll go play blackjack every once in a while just to be able to talk to her for a bit. For those of you who have met me, you know how much I despise playing -EV games since I'm not a card counter. There are signs that she may be interested in me, but I'm not absolutely sure. I'd really like to find out. The problem is that I don't know how to ask her. The only place I see her is at work while she's dealing to a table full of drunken baffoons. I'm thinking that I could wait until she goes on break and ask her out or something, but does that seem inappropriate? I'm actually nervous about approaching her. I haven't felt nervous like this in an about 8 years. ARGH!!!!
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Definitely wait until she goes on a break and then go up to her and tell her the only reason why you play BJ is because you are smitten with her. Then ask if she woudl consider meeting you for a coffee/T, juice etc. I think it will all be in your approach. Excuse yourself and just put it all out there. Use your words carefully!!!
 
Alright. I appreciate the advice everyone. I'm going to ask her to go shooting next time I see her go on break. Jesus Christ. I feel like a fuckin schoolgirl about this.
 
MF, you are adorable. Just be yourself, you will be fine.
 
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