Casper....Pretty sure it was me. It started when I made a video. She said she no longer felt the need to entertain GL if I was going to make videos. I offered to step aside.
In fact I defended her when people took her statement as a dig.
Then in the predictions thread I made a "prediction" about her being the next Heidi Fleiss after losing her dream job due to a piss test. I was totally joking in the spirit of the thread. It never occurred to me that she would take that seriously. She flipped out. Called the women trash and told me how pathetic I was for posting so much. Somewhere in there after she had lost her mind on me, I pointed out that her post about being clean for a month made no sense as far as timing (along with content of her other posts.) I think if you look at her last 10 posts or so one can easily conclude that she felt that the forum wasn't big enough for both of us.
Honestly I didn't see it coming but whatever. I won't lose any sleep over it if she doesn't post again. I'm sorry for your sake as I know you really liked her, but I assume you have a way to contact her outside of the forum.