So, I have ever lived anywhere more than 5 years. I like change. I really really hate winters. I know Chicago winter is worse, but there's good job options there. Anyway, my parents are aging and it's difficult being so far from them, and flying back and forth is a pain (due to a family health issue I am in California as I type). My career industry is thriving out west in all major cities and growing rapidly, in NYC it's slower building and very very corporate. My money would go much much farther in different city, however, as Blitty knows, I am able to live a nice life in NYC. I have a nice studio without roommates, I have a good job, etc. I am contemplating the benefits, pros and cons one might say, of a life elsewhere.