im a kinder and more gentle ray now...plus, you already know you should have been a sheet stain and i figure we all need a 2nd chance (or 7966587987th in your case)...you dont bring it up and i wont... i only pick on muddy for being a useless hypocrite and dafty because we need someone to argue with from time to time... i got love for you both and would enjoy hanging out partying