robyn the Bible is CLEAR on this issue
lustful self-pleasuring outside of a marriage is WRONG
you are fortunate that you are IN a marriage
you are to ONLY allow bread to please you, no one else, INCLUDING YOURSELF
if you already know what pleases you and you can please yourself - then why is bread in the picture?
you and bread have GOD-GIVEN sexual desires, and you need to preserve them to be used in God's appropriate context
you are ONLY to be pleased by bread
I don't want to have to explain this to you again