Buttcat is off work for a week

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Had sex without Viagra yesterday. Worked fine. No problems. There is a reason for the Viagra but regular unenhanced Mudcat ain't going on no scrapheap anytime soon.


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Many flavored coffees being drank this week too.

Living high on the hog here.

High on the hog.
 
I'll say yes. I had two samples of something years ago - I believe it was Cialis. Could have been Levitra though. I can't remember where I got them but anyway, I took them. That was with Jenny.

I recall a similar but maybe not quite as strong effect?? Maybe?? Actually I am pretty foggy on what happened there. I wouldn't be surprised if I talked about it here. Maybe you could do a fancy shmancy search and find it.


Anyway, when I spoke to the doctor to get my Viagra prescription we also talked about Cialis and Levitra. She recommended the Viagra based on her experience and the feedback she got but she said we could switch if we weren't happy with the results.


PS - Jenny also got some Viagra. Like, for herself. Apparently that's a thing. But it doesn't do anything for her. :sad:
 
Many flavored coffees being drank this week too.

Living high on the hog here.

High on the hog.



Southern Butter Pecan is what I am currently having. I was at the store and I picked one up off the shelf and eyeballed it. This chubby woman saw me and volunteers, "That is so good. So good."

I had a rapidfire internal debate about how she - chubby as she was - probably finds everything with a lot of sugar in it so good, but I just went the friendly route.

Like, what's the worst thing that could happen? "Sold!" I said and dropped it in my handbasket.


But yeah it's pretty good.
 
Maybe we should expand on the 'She comes first' book.

- Did she?

- What kinds of techniques?

- Does the medication reduce moistness?

- Is Reno Cool the author of that book?
 
have you guys thought about trying something like ky intense, or other female stimulus lubes/topicals? that might help.
 
First of all, let me just say that if any of you guise ever meet Jenny, you are going to have to pretend you don't know a lot of shit you know about her. She would not be happy with me blabbing this way.



But the fact is, she has a real problem cumming. It sucks. I feel sure it is all about her current medications. I can relate. I have had medication that made it near impossible to cum. My sex life at the time was strictly masturbation but still ---> frustrating.

Before shit happened with Jenny, she used to cum over and over just from plain old intercourse. It was easy. Reaction to oral was off the charts. She only ever wanted a limited amount of oral because it was too intense.

Ah, the carefree days when the only concern was scaring the neighbors with all the noise that might be mistaken for me murdering her.

But that was before everything. 5 major surgeries. Seizure disorder. All those drugs.

There is a lot can be said about this - the book and lubes and whatnot - but I won't put it all in one post.

The good news is she came yesterday!! Just from straight intercourse. It was our third go and the first two times, no - but then BOOM! - a Christmas miracle.

Hopefully it is a sign of things to come.

Get it? Come?

Yeah you get it.
 
But I don't think any funny lube is going to make a difference. She's tried viagra which is supposed to bring all kinds of extra bloodflow to thousands of nerve endings and whatnot - that hasn't helped - it's hard to imagine how a lube that feels a bit warmer externally would be a difference-maker.

On a side-note, she has always been the least "wet" female I have ever seen. We have always needed lube every time. Even back when things were the hot and heaviest and we were getting results all over the place ---> almost no natural lube.

:dunno:

I don't think that means anything. Just an observation. (which, again, she would be horrified if she knew I was blabbing about it willy-nilly.)
 
Yeah, but they make external ointments (for lack of a better name at the moment) for females that have difficulties. I guess it makes it more tingly and sensitive. :dunno:

Has she spoken with her gyno about this?
 
She speaks to her regular doctor regularly. She has a great relationship with her. That's where she got the viagra.

I don't even know if she has a gyno. For all her doctors - and surgeons - and there have been many, many over the years - I don't recall ever hearing about a gynecologist.

But we're doing stuff and trying stuff. There is still a ways to go with developing the ideas we have. No need to bring anyone else into it at this point.
 
In all seriousness, what Mudcat needs to do is become an expert in finding a girls G-SPOT.

I'm a pro at this. I really am. Been finding and hitting the G-SPOT since a girl I had when I was 16 mentioned this to me. I was quite intrigued so I went hunting/digging for it. Once I moved on I got another girl when I was 16 and went hunting/digging and found it after a few tries.

Find a girls G-SPOT and you and she will NOT be disappointed.
 
Is the Viagra for women, really called: Niagra?
 
I am away for a few weeks and Muddy becomes the GL horndog!!! GOOOOO MUDDY!!!!


Listen to Cami in regards to the KY stuff. Just think of it as a slick toy.


And that info on the anti-seizure meds it useful since I think Mr. Nina is now on some of that and is supposed to come home in like a week or so. I keep telling him he needs to clear it with the docs about the boinking but not sure if he has. And that isn't something I could ask his son if he really did. That would be awkward.
 
I am still working my way through the book. It is a bit slow at getting to the point, the point being, in my mind, techniques.

It is blabbing a lot about a lot of things. Some of it is just completely eyerollable (the 18 parts of the clitoris? Really?) But I get the point about changing traditional views and not just looking upon cunnilingus as foreplay. It goes on at some length doing a sales job about that but it's not really necessary. I wouldn't be reading a book called She Comes First if I had to be convinced that the woman having orgasms is important.

But anyway I have more reading to do and then stuff to try before I will file my report. I will say this: the way I do oral just from experience or whatever ---> it doesn't work. So we'll see if they have come up with some revolutionary ideas.

I'm afraid it really is mainly a problem with insensitivity due to drugs but I'm willing to try.
 
Seriously Muddy great news for you and Jenny! Not so serious, I'm thinking the process could have been entitled Make Jenny Great Again and you were successful! :up:
 
Poor chicky-poo. She had a vibrator that was fairly reliable - it had a set of features that worked for her - she had it for years - but it finally broke down.

And now we can't find another one like it.

:mudcat: