Well it's like this: she has trouble cumming. It is difficult. We assume it has a lot to do with all the drugs she takes for her seizure disorder - plus pain killers. Whatever - we are exploring all avenues to get that happening. Well, 3 main avenues I guess.
1) We have fiddled with some toys. I know I talked about some of that here.
2) She found a book which we are reading together and trying to put some principles into practice. It's called She Comes First. It is largely about cunnilingus. Importance of. Techniques.
3) Also I have been taking Viagra. I don't actually need it. We were having a successful boink-life without it - but I guess with me at age 53 and given her circumstance, I decided to look at getting a little extra help. And it works as advertised. Non-stop, lasting rock-hardness. Hell, I could stop boinking, go make a pot of coffee and come back - and I would still have a good boner. That is not the case with natural 53 year-old Mudcat Junior.
Anyway, those are the three major points. Each expands to a more detailed discussion but those are the bullet points.
She still likes sex, even knowing the odds are against her. She initiates more than me. We went twice yesterday afternoon - and those were not quickies by any means - but after dinner and whatnot, she was right in there for an evening session. I expect today will be the same.
But yeah, it is not just the simple throw-down-and-do-it as in days of yore.