CaliGirl's Match.com Escapades

MrMonkey
Let's hope then Oskana she totally gets rid of Chris before she says "I do" to some unlucky bastard! CGNJ probably won't being getting married for quite some time anyway!
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this.
 
Oksana
xpy, I'm thankfully not going through this nor have I for many years. As we get older most of us start to become aware of patterns that have popped up - or see things our friends experience - so if we're smart enough we adjust how we react accordingly.




Really I don't know. Thinking back, a friend of mine bluntly told me that I was treating guys like trash, whether intentionally or not, and I didn't have any right to mess with their feelings. So of course I went through the whole process again the next time a relationship ended and I was left feeling so humiliated by my behaviour that it finally woke me up. The very thing I was pissed off at my ex for - not showing any regard for my feelings - I was doing to others and had even been warned about it beforehand. I can only imagine how I'd feel if I had met someone I was interested in and while they were hanging out with me, they'd much rather be with someone else.

And I'm not in any way judging Cali or implying that what she's doing is wrong. It just blows my mind that regardless of how/where/when we grew up, it's like most of us are clones of each other when it comes to this stuff.
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good advice from your friend. good advice for me too.
 
xpansive
My bad Oksy. Thought u were in a R'ship at the time....Ty youve made me rethink the balance of this entire subject. Plus my misinterpretation didnt help :) U able to provide a timeframe for this moving u speak of? Cos from what i recall youve been planning this 4 around 12 months or so...
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i finally got everything sorted with immigration here and now approval from court - which i didn't even realise i needed until maybe 4 or 5 weeks ago-- to move. So now I just need Costa Rican immigration to send me an acknowledgement that they've received from app and say they're processing it (although it'll probably get initially declined) and we're free to go. The big hold up was Aussie immigration but thankfully that's all done and I'm a PR now so if by some random chance my son ever wants to move back here when he's older, I can do that freely now. That was his dad's stipulation.
 
CaliGirlNJ
good advice from your friend. good advice for me too.
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It is good advice but it's also the kind of advice that probably only really sinks in hindsight. Or at least that's how it was for me anyway. I went out and did the exact same thing again the next chance I got. How's that for being thick headed? :lmao:
 
Oksana
i finally got everything sorted with immigration here and now approval from court - which i didn't even realise i needed until maybe 4 or 5 weeks ago-- to move. So now I just need Costa Rican immigration to send me an acknowledgement that they've received from app and say they're processing it (although it'll probably get initially declined) and we're free to go. The big hold up was Aussie immigration but thankfully that's all done and I'm a PR now so if by some random chance my son ever wants to move back here when he's older, I can do that freely now. That was his dad's stipulation.
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Ok more questions than answers here. Buzzed ya through hotmail (i know u said gmail b4 but forgot sorry...) Expect an inquisition shortly ;-)
 
Jello
He knows. Calm striker.
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Oh. Well not as funny then.

I don't know why at this stage of the game I still allow myself to be disappointed by Daffy. I guess I should stop rooting for my mommy and daddy to get back together after 25 years of divorce as well.

Fuck you guys I'm going to listen to my Papa Roach cd. Loudly.
 
excitement/drama/boozing/drugging/crazy sexing>>>>>>>>great overall guy that would loved hard on you and given you everything else you wanted


Histronics!!!!!
 
Don't forget getting choked out in a restaurant bathroom and having champagne dumped all over your breasticles.
 
i'm suggesting a daily rotation of 7 guys...one for each day of the week. this should at least scratch the surface of fulfilling her needs

1. Blitty..... its what she REALLY wants...common
2. boner's best friend- i'm sure he's a hell of a guy
3. ZetaPsi, he's got mad skills below the belt and a great body
4. Bobbyfk, he'll give a listening ear and endearing laugh
5. Bateman, you want a drama war??? well he'll give it to you...."and it won't stop"
6. JJgold-demographic fits, and sugar daddy galore
7. Mr. Simple


once a month that one gay dude that likes the MMA can gather all the guys for a manhood camping retreat to touch base and pp heads on how to better take care of Cali's needs.

Plommer will be on call for all emergencies
 
Oksana
My guess is that while this Chris guy is still around, Cali will always find something wrong with any other guy.

I'm not sure how it works for men obviously but most women aren't good at this thing. While we may think we're ready to date again, in reality we're just using people as time fillers while still pining for our ex. And often we're trying to prove a point (to ourselves? friends? the ex?) that we're mature enough to move on when in reality we're just not. The worst part is we often end up hurting the feelings of innocent guys who happen to come into our lives at that time. They think they have a chance with us and we may even trick ourselves for awhile into believing they do - but they really don't. It's not fair but it's true.

At times I believe the creators of SATC have a lot to answer for.
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Translation: Women are cunts.

Archie
Plommer will be on call for all emergencies
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Nope, as someone rapidly approaching old age I'm not interested in the drama most young broads require to sustain themselves.

I'm only now beginning to understand Willie Bee on a personal level.
 
Oksana
My guess is that while this Chris guy is still around, Cali will always find something wrong with any other guy.

I'm not sure how it works for men obviously but most women aren't good at this thing. While we may think we're ready to date again, in reality we're just using people as time fillers while still pining for our ex. And often we're trying to prove a point (to ourselves? friends? the ex?) that we're mature enough to move on when in reality we're just not. The worst part is we often end up hurting the feelings of innocent guys who happen to come into our lives at that time. They think they have a chance with us and we may even trick ourselves for awhile into believing they do - but they really don't. It's not fair but it's true.

At times I believe the creators of SATC have a lot to answer for.
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:lol:

Men can be the exact same kinda cunt Oksie. We spent 3 years with a time filler, cheating on her with the mostly-unavailable object of our lust.
 
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