Being nice does not work.

[MrX]

I think it works for the person being nice as well. Don't you feel good about helping others, being friendly to strangers etc?

Sure, but that shouldn't really be the point of being nice. If you're really being nice, it should be for the person you're being nice to.

 

[Cami]

I get Mr X's point, being nice isn't about making yourself feel good, (although it does) - that would be selfish, and takes away from the nicety. Being nice is something you do to make the other person feel good, and make the recipient happy.

Why? The golden rule, and why would want to hurt/upset another person? what good comes of that, what would that accomplish?

 

[IAG]

Sure, but that shouldn't really be the point of being nice. If you're really being nice, it should be for the person you're being nice to.

I didn't say it was the objective. But it's a nice bonus...get it? nice bonus! bwhahaa

 

[betplom]

I didn't say it was the objective. But it's a nice bonus...get it? nice bonus! bwhahaa

You need to get laid, pal.

I'm not talkin about a plastic penis either.

 

[IAG]

I get Mr X's point, being nice isn't about making yourself feel good, (although it does) - that would be selfish, and takes away from the nicety. Being nice is something you do to make the other person feel good, and make the recipient happy.

Why? what good comes of that, what would that accomplish?

None.

 

[IAG]

You need to get laid, pal.

I'm not talkin about a plastic penis either.

Preaching to the choir pal.


You do know I realize that those jokes are lame and the bwahahas are a joke as well right? I think some here don't get my real humor.

 

[Cami]

I got it, I giggled.

 

[RayRay]

youre so misunderstood, iga...

 

[IAG]

youre so misunderstood, iga...

I know the ** people get me. I'm just not sure the GL people do.

Incidently, while you are here...I want your take on a professional matter in the next week or so. I'll hit you up on FB.....after I get the answers I need from Shdw.

 

[RayRay]

dont pay her the extra 100 after the job is done..not even if the pimp comes to the door...

oh wait...you mean a different professional matter

 

[IAG]

dont pay her the extra 100 after the job is done..not even if the pimp comes to the door...

oh wait...you mean a different professional matter

Oh Raymond....hey, is that your full real name? Did your parents call you that growing up?

Everybody loves Raymond.

 

[reno cool]

okok I do have a comment, so if being nice does work, what's left, just being mean all the time? Or just not giving a shit? That won't work either, there has to be a balance.

good point pal


ok maybe to pile on Casper, he likes it

 

[bacon]

Reno talk to me one on one anytime on facebook,too or anyone else. I won't make it public. If you feel there is an argument then do what you feel is right.

Then judge.

 

[MrX]

Reno talk to me one on one anytime on facebook,too or anyone else. I won't make it public. If you feel there is an argument then do what you feel is right.

Then judge.

Yeah, calm down, Reno.

 

[IAG]

You've got to be kidding me. MAKE IT PUBLIC ASSHOLE. There is nothing to make... FOR THE LOVE OF GOD MAKE IT PUBLIC. I HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE. PLEASE...LET THEM JUDGE.



I CAN'T BELIEVE WE ARE STILL TALKING ABOUT THIS. WHY ARE WE TALKING ABOUT CAMI AND I EMAILING EACH OTHER?? INVADED YOUR HOME? YOU ARE INVADING THE FORUM WITH ALL THIS CRAP....TO WHAT END?
AND IT'S ALL CRYPTIC, because that is the only way you can make your argument sound like it has any legs.


I should have quoted Bacon above as I see he has now edited the "It is invading our home" comment from his post.

 

[reno cool]

Reno talk to me one on one anytime on facebook,too or anyone else. I won't make it public. If you feel there is an argument then do what you feel is right.

Then judge.

I'm just speaking in generalities Bacon. But I'm glad to speak to you on facebook about whatever send me a message

 

[IAG]

Then talk to me Reno to get the truth.

For the love of God ....put it out there if you think you have evidence of some horrible transgression by IAG. Unless Cami is lying to me or you...which I doubt....then something here is really OFF. Fok. I thought we had moved on.

 

[reno cool]

ok I'll talk to you too iag