okok I do have a comment, so if being nice does work, what's left, just being mean all the time? Or just not giving a shit? That won't work either, there has to be a balance.
The point of being nice, is that it works for the person you're being nice to. It's not supposed to work for you. For things to work for you, you find someone to be nice to you.
The point of being nice, is that it works for the person you're being nice to. It's not supposed to work for you. For things to work for you, you find someone to be nice to you.