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Being nice does not work.

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My badz. I had NO idea how late it was, there comes a point where I lose all concept of time, especially when he and I are fighting. One minute it's 8 in the evening, next thing I know it's the weeeeeeeee hours of the night. I should revisit the whole clock thing.
I also need to do a better job of notating which number is a mobile, and which is a home for all my contacts.
That's not the point though...the point is I am certainly not calling you or texting you...we have exchanged emails and if this is going to keep coming up with him blaming ME only then I will have to stop communicating with you...which is a shame...but I am not invading your home..that's so laughable. I know you are in cramped quarters and all there and it's likely to make for some tense times, but common.
 
IAG
That's not the point though...the point is I am certainly not calling you or texting you...we have exchanged emails and if this is going to keep coming up with him blaming ME only then I will have to stop communicating with you...which is a shame...but I am not invading your home..that's so laughable. I know you are in cramped quarters and all there and it's likely to make for some tense times, but common.

I know. I emailed you first plenty of times....last I checked that what's friends do, why it has turned into suck a BIG deal is beyond me. and personally I am getting sick of it BACON.
 
IAG I just unblocked you tell me what you want it's cool we can talk.

30 minutes.

Fuck it. You wanna put this shit on blast? You wanna go there? Lets go.

I am still waiting on a true, real, legit reason this is all going down.

I get you don't like that you asked me to email with her during work, and that upset you, despite the fact that you have txted Matty, google chatted with your brother and friends, and are on gamelive, all during working hours. (hypocritical if you ask me). I get that you and Matty found some of her posting to be annoying. But none of that is a legit reason in my eyes to demand I stop being friends with her, or talk to her ever again. It is not a good reason to be so mean, and put all this on blast and cause so much DRAMA.

So, please, I am all ears, what's the REAL issue here?
 
IAG I just unblocked you tell me what you want it's cool we can talk.

30 minutes.
What I want is for you to start making some sense. I don't call Cami. I don't text Cami..or haven't in a long time other than sending a video from Cabo...this is to the best of my recollection...my memory is not the best always...We do email. What is it that you want me to do? What exactly is your problem? Is it that you think I have been trying to damage your relationship? On the contrary...during the many on/off times you guys have had, I have mostly encouraqed her to stay with you. I am a hopeless romantic and told her that if she could try to make it work she should. A lot of that I said because I was in the midst of a break up and reminded her how much they suck. I did tell her I thought she should insist you get help for your bi polar issues.

The truth is when I sensed that at times she needed a voice that was more on her side, I just listened to her mostly.and probably agreed with whatever she was wanting to say...but .telling her she would need to make her own choices. If I really thought you were bad together, I would not have given you yet another refriend fb chance while in Cabo. I only did that cuz I liked you. I thought we were cool. ..and I was a little liquored up.

This has totally blindsighted me and was extremely painful. I look back now at some of those "HEY IAG" threads and they sort of make sense NOW...but since when I inquired you just said you were drunk and sorry I didn't think twice about them. One moment you are :lol: at everything I say and the next you are doing your best to belittle my existence.

I never knew anything was up...maybe Cami was supposed to have told me but was afraid of hurting my feelings. I just don't know how I was supposed to know that I should not email your gf...especially since you were the one who told me to do so in the first place!

Then all this stuff came out on the forum about banning people who mention other forums or the contents of my threads etc...again ..had no idea where it was coming from....only in the last few days has the truth come out that this is all about my friendship with Cami.

I have never actively petitioned her to leave you..ever...again, that I remember..cuz I may have done so if she had called crying or something...I just don't know so I won't say never.

Anyway, I have been off/on sports forums for over 10 years and never had an issue like this with anyone. I'm still in disbelief. When things calmed down I tried to tell myself it was just a product of the BPD, and that you were still a decent person deep down...but here we go again today.

I'm putting this on here as opposed to privately on fb and any communication should be here because I don't to risk any chance of you twisting anything around as I feel has been done over and over in the past week.
 
Fuck it. You wanna put this shit on blast? You wanna go there? Lets go.

I am still waiting on a true, real, legit reason this is all going down.

I get you don't like that you asked me to email with her during work, and that upset you, despite the fact that you have txted Matty, google chatted with your brother and friends, and are on gamelive, all during working hours. (hypocritical if you ask me). I get that you and Matty found some of her posting to be annoying. But none of that is a legit reason in my eyes to demand I stop being friends with her, or talk to her ever again. It is not a good reason to be so mean, and put all this on blast and cause so much DRAMA.

So, please, I am all ears, what's the REAL issue here?

This sucks and it hurts so deeply.

It is absurd in a way but at that same time I just miss you and I just don't know what else to say that I have't not proven by my actions and word.

I never doubt reasons despite where they come from and if that's how it goes then that's how it goes.
 
Don't you see that YOU are the one that started this? You are the one that has kept it going?

We were all trying to let things die down.

How do think I feel? Or anyone else involved for that matter?

I do love you, but this all so ridiculous. This just isn't like you. I mean I know you have your moments, but all of this is just so irrational. I just don't understand where your head is at right now. And l don't like all of this anymore then you do. But you brought this on yourself. Maybe next time you should consider the possible consequences of your actions BEFORE you make them.


and still, no answer. Figures.