Steves gets his life together

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Stevey firmly sets hard boundaries, new roomate respects them, things go smoothly from here on out: +8000

lol: -15000
 
Yeah I'm not doing that. Besides the other roommate this guy has friends he goes to the bar with etc. He is a guy people feel sorry for which means that shit could get me jumped if things escalate.

Today he apologized for the bacon thing shaking my hand like ten times with all this babble. Said he'd really been thinking about it and felt bad. So I brought up the 2 and 430 bathroom thing and he started arguing about the times. Mistakenly said yo instead of addressing his name and he got all nasty saying his names not yo. Other garbage. As I leave he screams "BECAUSE WE'RE MEN!" and slams the door behind me.going to be aggressive about a studio hopefully from these guys in the same place or close. Heck, that way I can get into my silky covers again and maybe bring back sing us a song Saturday I think it was called. I also started jotting down jokes when I'm idle at work and that would be cool to practice for epic YouTube comedy battle with Amish Dave.

Done talking about the roomie drama unless something significant happens. Stupid soon to be old news.
 
stevek
Mistakenly said yo instead of addressing his name and he got all nasty saying his names not yo.
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So sensitive everyone these days. If he can't be talked too just avoid his ass as much as possible. Stevie, only from a distance but I believe you keep thinking/concerned too much about other peoples feelings, prioritize your own! Anyway it could have much worse, you could have said "you people."
 
MrMonkey
So sensitive everyone these days. If he can't be talked too just avoid his ass as much as possible. Stevie, only from a distance but I believe you keep thinking/concerned too much about other peoples feelings, prioritize your own! Anyway it could have much worse, you could have said "you people."
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Agreed, Mr. Monkey "BECAUSE WE'RE MEN!'
 
Doing the Nina suggested pro move headphones/fake phone call thing every time he's nearby.

#ninasopro
 
Unfortunately I did have to report the roommate. He was smashed, threw up all over the floor, including in front of my door. I wasn't too nice but I didn't yell, curse or threaten him.

He opens my door, babbles about never talking to him again if I don't like him. then calls me a puss trying to start a fight, which I wouldn't win.

A very cool poker friend and dealer told me I should definitely report him.

In talking to my other roommate who feels sorry for him and tries to help him (and whom likes me for now, but probably won't when shit hits the fan tomorrow), this guy is a convicted heroin dealer who did ten years. The prior tenant was a female, and the asshole of course didn't get along' with her.

I know he didn't do anything major but this is about the future. Since all he does is sit around, drink whiskey, and talk about people all day, he's going to be talking about me a lot after tomorrow and there isn't anything I can do about it.

Unfortunately this has all brought back flashbacks of bully's criminals all my life so I have been having anxiety attacks. I looked up the symptoms and I'm having every one in extreme, worried about the future.

My hands are tied here.

On top of it all my Brother wants me too meet my parents this weekend and they're sure as heck not seeing me like this.

Hopefully it's all resolved before then.

In good news Nina sent me a link for the perfect studio. I reached out to them and we'll see what happens there.

We will pursue the bipolar meds tomorrow as well, because if your parents and IAG tell you that's what needs to happen then that's what you do.

Love you all and I'll keep you posted.
 
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Of what? Lol. He hasn't done anything that serious YET. But opening my door IS a big deal, imo. I feel like such a drama queen but shit I've been through too much shit to let this piece of shit drain on society throw it off.
 
Archie
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Ah, I thought that but wasn't sure. He cleaned that up unfortunately. I think a part of this is due to the playing poker after work to 2 am as well and no sleep all week. If I see or hear the fucker I have an attack so it sucks. Not missing work though, I worked like this all week despite how out of it and worried I've felt. Pretty bad but of course it gets a lot worse when you've been through what I have. Just this dude is throwing me off everything and I've felt worse here than I did at the shelter . At least at the shelter if someone threatened me (which a couple did) I could just let them know and they would get a stern warning that they would be out if they continued, I had one creep say "well you gotta go outside at some point" like ten times, threatened to report him, then he decided he was my best friend so I tried to get him a job and played it cool. I never forgive a physical or mental bully, fuck that. In the past I've made threats that I can't make now. I'll report it all and will aggressively pursue separation from him. Shit has me thinking of all my mistakes in life, not having completed a college degree, my own place etc. but shit, with my mortgage background we can get there. Bridge situation to that etc. etc. to make me and my family happy. Sucks, but we'll get through it. Thank God for Ninaballs. Sucks sucks sucks but I don't live in an environment where I live in fear. Ty for all crew and I'll keep you guys posted. Archie I do have evidence of your vomit incident, Rogie's spitting incident and Tully's stripper ass/cunt spitting incident so one move and shit hits the fan, FOR REAL.
 
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They gave me an emergency phone number and I am in talks with them about a new place. At the ER now with 2 40s blowing blues harmonica and getting a bj from a meth whore.

Wait....

The first 1.25 sentences of that are true.
 
Had to take the day off to address everything, move, etc., make adjustments and check on some things. Nina continues to be absolute fucking money but got way too excited about her enjoying my sense of humor so much so made some mistakes there. Hopefully none of them were recorded (none were on the phone with clients, but everything is recorded). Adjustments. Phone cracked so new one there, programming/learning that and archiving something I have to clean up far away in case I need to involve the police. Thank God for plenty of money and time to do it.

Will be in touch.

Much love,

The Edge
 
Brought things back to the shelter and keeping the rental for now as well. At the rental you know who was not a dick today, and he did hold a door for me so I said thanks bro. I play everything smooth with him as I check with an attorney to see if I can sue the agency for putting me in the same unit with him, since their advertising is that they put people with things in common in the same unit. I don't think he and I have much in common. The attorney says no. In the meantime when I'm there I will document anything he does wrong, all timestamped, etc. My loan officer experience will make this 100% thorough.

Some things will take time be it shrink the the anxiety attacks (hopefully they stop now that I'm not there). I feel a little better and thank good they let me in because hotels are really expensive or where I work.

Hospital went well, just some blisters and a little blood (as everyone knows, RJ LOVES SOME FUCKING BLOOD!!!!!!!!!!).

New phone for Nina and others as I step everything up.

Still pretty paranoid, etc. - symptoms of anxiety but when I feel that way I just take a walk, through on the headphones and try to sing along with the BEST MUSIC IN THE FUCKING WORLD DESPITE WHAT MACHU HAS TO FUCKING SAY ABOUT IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Alive for body pains.

Planet Fitness for body pains as recommended.

These time we don't bomb a bottle of vodka and get obnoxious at Planet Fitness. Only 40's and some pranks.

Wait....

Will be laying off poker probably until the weekend or longer, Family coming into town Sunday and will probably lay off Saturday unless I'm feeling significantly better, and you can't be playing like that.

Keep it real and don't forget to tampon up.
 
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I've decided to go back, pull on him and make him my bitch.

It's exactly what Vegas Dave would do.
 
Not yet, need to find a doctor asap but when?

So, this is. Tough situation but some of it is my fault. No college degree, this job, etc.

But shit it sure is a step up from sleeping on the street in the winter?

I'm really torn on this decision. At one place we have the roomie but no curfew, no snoring, just no shelter "stuff". I keep reaching out to the rental agency about another unit but they do not give one fuck, or they take forever to get back to you. Asked for a new person to work with and nothing.

It'll probably have to go with me losing $945 in a months rent and $1,500 by breaking the lease for somewhere else.

Blah blah blah FUCKING blah. My head is a mess and I'm so strung out that any little thing has me ready to snap, which you can't do in any environment that I'm in.

Whatever. My hands r tied. What's really is annoying is my Brother has set up for my parents to come up this weekend, and it could be the last time I see them before they have to go to an elderly person facility. They were very happy that I got a job and was out of the shelter, we all were. I can't lie to them about anything and the truth would make them sad except the prank phone calls. Thank God none of them clicked in is head, like my FUCKING GLOK ON TEELA!!!!!!!!

I doubt there's anything there for an attorney but I'm gonna look into it. Just so much to do, but when?!

The anxiety sucks real bad but thankfully my employer is being very patient.

Also poker is done until I feel much, much better across the board. If you come in on life tilt and to get away from your living situation you're gonna play like shit. Thank God I was shortstacking for that.

I've decided to really commit to music and comedy this time. Books, notes etc. If you're trying so hard to make people feel happy at the poker table, there's better ways to do that. Luckily with this job there is zero prep/studying outside of work so I can do that.

Still no sauce.

Ty for the reminder on the doctor. I'm pretty sure the state cut off my benefits so need those for all of that.

I've been called an old college kid many times and it's true. One facing dropout. Whatever.

Adulting, wtf?

Anyway, ty very much for the reminder and piece out.

GO TAMPONS!!!!
 
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