Whoah need some legal help. Am I in trouble? This is messed up

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stevek173

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OK being completely serious.

As you know I have been trying to get my stuff back from my Ex. I never EVER threatened to do anything illegal to her nor would I or to show up at her place.

What I DID say is that I want my stuff. Many many times. And that it's a civil matter if she doesn't.

Here's where it gets hairy. This past Thursday I BLASTED her brother with insults (but all accurate, more or less that I'm no longer a part of the family and that I don't respect how he abuses the rest of their family) and he took it. He called me I didn't take it because I was hangin w Noockie and I didn't want to listen to his white trash voice nor be insulted by Noockie hearing that assanine shit.

BUT I listened to it today yes 6 days later. He told me the ex was going to the courthouse the next day (now being 9.1) to file a PFA. Again I NEVER threatened to take any illegal action. Only litigation. However, I did keep texting her. Only texting. I did not realise until now that she actually did that....

ONLY TO FURTHER KEEP MY FAMILIES' HEIRLOOMS!

Wow, just wow.

Now from what I get a PFA gives the respondant 10 days to respond. And since he CALLED me twice and I only texted any of them and since his tone was threatening in the voicemail I might decide to turn it around.

Also I would rather NOT spend any more time knowing or bothering with any of them.

But if that PFA took place quicker and I didn't know it since I have been living with my new gf and my address is not updated yet?

Speak to me. If I have to turn myself in for just trying to legally get my shit back I will, and then they will have a civil matter on their hands. But if you KNOW shit about this situation that I don't please speak. I need help here.

Boys - never EVER let the white trash get ya. Just don't.
 
I might be slow...but what the hell is a PFA?
 
Matt Rain
Protection From Abuse

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I saw that and she is full of shit, clearly just trying to steal heirlooms while I move on to Noockie

The question is if the 10 days

I'm calling the staties in the morning

If I'm really in trouble because she IS TRYING TO STEAL OUR SHIT

then so be it, civil penalties will be worse. I won't drop the soap I promise.
 
Stevie you need to talk to an actual lawyer. There has to be people working pro bono on marital stuff.

Do you know if she'll only use your texts as the motive for her request? That does not seem very solid unless you made threats.
 
Matt Rain
Stevie you need to talk to an actual lawyer. There has to be people working pro bono for marital stuff.

Do you know if she'll only use your text as the motive for her request? That does not seem very solid unless you made threats.
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She's saying I did and there are NO threats

What they will try to make into a threat is this:

I want my stuff back form both places

THEY will say I said I'm coming to both places to get it

which they made up

now we are getting to the bottom of it.

ty Matty
 
That's not even close to a threat Stevie. I had a rowdy alcoholic neighbor evicted once, after several months' worth of attempts... it took a very explicit death threat that another neighbor was able to hear before we could get anything done. Obviously your situation is quite different but what you're quoting is nowhere near enough to warrant a restraining order.
 
Well if a PFA...was actually filed. The police would have to inform you of such an order. You are not expected to believe that someone filed something like that just by them telling you so. I would say that if you call up the Police department and ask them if indeed it was filed, that would be a start.

I would say the only way you could really be in trouble is if you are aware of such an order. If you are told to cease contact...then you must do so. If you were not told then you can't be held liable for sending texts. Now if you threatened...that would be a whole different story.

I would say you need do need to speak with a lawyer about all this though. I am not a lawyer and don't claim to be...have never had a PFA filed against me so i don't know a lot about this stuff but I am just trying to think about it logically.
 
Were you served any paperwork or notice? A phone call from her brother/family member is not legal notification.

If it were me, I would go to lawyer. I would file a claim in small claims court to get my items back.
 
Teela
Were you served any paperwork or notice? A phone call from her brother/family member is not legal notification.

If it were me, I would go to lawyer. I would file a claim in small claims court to get my items back.
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I have been away since he said it, exactly 1 week ago

So I don't know I find out soon

If Lawyers get involved well than they do. And we will be prepared.

Main main worry was violating a restraining order without knowing and as a result having a warrant out without me knowing it.

Oh and I was notified by a call which I did not take from the trash brother and a text from her that I now realise but before I thought was just being an ass to keep my shit

Let's talk abotu my shit here:

1 Grill about $600

1 Bedset (I said she could keep just this)

1 Trenchcoat, about $200

About $200 in shoes

Some musical shit
Random clothes

Now I feel lame.

But that's what they are fighting for apparently.
 
Steve, stop talking to these people! If she has your stuff and won't give it back file whatever you have to file and let the legal system sort it out. As for the PFA, I'm assuming it's something like a restraining order? Call a lawyer if you need to (I have no idea if you need to) but, please stop making phone calls and/or visits. Nothing good can come of it.

I'm assuming it's your family that's making a big deal about the furniture. If not, let it go and be happy and free with the love of your life.
 
Mrs. X
Steve, stop talking to these people! If she has your stuff and won't give it back file whatever you have to file and let the legal system sort it out. As for the PFA, I'm assuming it's something like a restraining order? Call a lawyer if you need to (I have no idea if you need to) but, please stop making phone calls and/or visits. Nothing good can come of it.

I'm assuming it's your family that's making a big deal about the furniture. If not, let it go and be happy and free with the love of your life.
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Very sage advice and no there were NO visits EXCEPT FROM HER WHEN I WAS SITLL THERE before Nookie and PRIOR they were ONLY from her....and spotaneous - I think I lost like 2 clients form putting up w that shit SHE broke up w ME is the act, so dumb in hindsight

It is the furniture. X - My granny basically died on it. It's ours.

And yes I am done talking to them.

And it's a civil matter and me under a threat of criminal charges is probably a joke. He does know statees. I just don't think they are that stupid to fall for:

He said we wanted things from both places

=

He said we would be at both places

Again GL I feel retarted for believeing it. But shit I was with her/them for 8 years. They will behave as what they are.
 
I'm runnin off to play Wii w Noockie (who works her ass off and only likes sports so much) and to fuck all night rock star style

Thanks for making a joke of it GL

Lawyer = hired

My argument = winner

<3

:stevie:
 
stevek173
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It is the furniture. X - My granny basically died on it. It's ours.
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Steve, this furniture might be infested with tricky spirits. My vote is to let it go. So much better on many levels.
 
Please tell me more about this trenchcoat :popcorn:
 
stevie disable text msgs on all your phones like i do
 
Man just get a case of beer and forget this bitch
 
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