What are your NEEDS? (non-gambling thread)

[RayRay]

This comment from Stevies got me to thinking about my NEEDS in a woman?

Originally Posted by stevek173
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Cali set some jealousy traps or something, find something you can use to whip him into shape and make him need you.



are there certain things that you wont simply "settle" for? whats it take for you? what does he/she have that you feel you need?

 

[Matty]

I don't think stevie's post and yours are related.

What do you need in a woman RR?

 

[RayRay]

Just a few off the top of my head...

I need to be very Physically attracted to my woman or else its a no-go(i have to want to fuck her when i see her)... I need her to be independent and have solid work goals... (fuck a bunch of having a lazy broad who gets comfortable and simply dreads each day and has nothing to work for) ... and of course, sense of humor is important... i need her to be understanding and have patience with my dumbass too...what i do isnt easy and its very time consuming (snapping at me and constantly complaining has already ended long relationships) ...

ill think of some others...

 

[Boner_18]

Three things. $$$. Allowance is the end all be all.

 

[stevek173]

Just a few off the top of my head...

I need to be very Physically attracted to my woman or else its a no-go(i have to want to fuck her when i see her)... I need her to be independent and have solid work goals... (fuck a bunch of having a lazy broad who gets comfortable and simply dreads each day and has nothing to work for) ... and of course, sense of humor is important... i need her to be understanding and have patience with my dumbass too...what i do isnt easy and its very time consuming (snapping at me and constantly complaining has already ended long relationships) ...

ill think of some others...

Thank you for this thread. I like this a lot RayRay.

Also for me - HAS TO be positive. We all get down and sure when you are together you vent but there is a very clear difference between a little venting and just being fucking bitchy.

EDIT - MUST have a pulse.

 

[CaliGirlNY]

this thread has MAJOR potential.

 

[Saulty]

Men don't have needs of their own and they have to make sure all their woman's needs are filled without them knowing what they are because women assume men should know.

 

[FreeFall]

Blonde Hair
Blue Eyes
Above 5' 9"
Career; Medical (Nurse), Nurtitionist, Dietician, Entertainer (Cheerleader, Dancer, Stripper)
Likes the outdoors aka exercises and have a great ass / legs. I'm not really a tit guy.
A LOT OF PAITENCE

 

[RayRay]

completely agree, pavy... ive been told that i do the bare minimum at times as if im supposed to know what else is expected or what else i should be doing... and i have heard "if i have to tell you, it defeats the purpose" that one really pisses me off... bitch, if you want or need something from me, fucking tell me...dont just sit there getting more and more frustrated when i dont know what it is that you need...

 

[tullamore]

I need a girl who will shut up and leave me alone, when i want to have a beer and a blunt on the deck and watch the stars after a long day.

 

[Saulty]

completely agree, pavy... ive been told that i do the bare minimum at times as if im supposed to know what else is expected or what else i should be doing... and i have heard "if i have to tell you, it defeats the purpose" that one really pisses me off... bitch, if you want or need something from me, fucking tell me...dont just sit there getting more and more frustrated when i dont know what it is that you need...

Wise men think alike.

 

[illmatick]

I need a girl who will shut up and leave me alone, when i want to have a beer and a blunt on the deck and watch the stars after a long day.

Wise men think alike.

Also a few freckles wouldn't hurt.

 

[Enigma]

attractive bank teller today: "is there anything else I can help you with?"

 

[RayRay]

cgnj, what do you think you could do more of or better that would make chris want you more or would make him think about taking the relationship to the next level

 

[roguejuror]

Three things. $$$. Allowance is the end all be all.

You mean you need her to be rich?

 

[Muse]

Really the biggest two for me would be I need a girl I find attractive and to be intelligent. Others that are nice but not necessary are good job, humor and faithful.

 

[Matty]

Just a few off the top of my head...

I need to be very Physically attracted to my woman or else its a no-go(i have to want to fuck her when i see her)... I need her to be independent and have solid work goals... (fuck a bunch of having a lazy broad who gets comfortable and simply dreads each day and has nothing to work for) ... and of course, sense of humor is important... i need her to be understanding and have patience with my dumbass too...what i do isnt easy and its very time consuming (snapping at me and constantly complaining has already ended long relationships) ...

+1

No one wants to be with a needy, lazy, nagging bitch.

Especially if she's ugly.

 

[roguejuror]

What are my needs? I NEED her to be married rayray. I have no desire to be playing the little stupid dating game. With their rules, and bases and all those boring expected steps they like to play here. It's simple rayray, when they are married there's no time for all the dumb crap. It can be a taboo, religious or moral or whatever. There's an aura of danger, civil and even physical. Gotta be foxy, spontaneous, count your steps.

And, most importantly, it is sometimes a critical step in the evolution of that person. Because that person wasn't right.