You see Shari. We don't need to be Facebook buddies. You are giving us daily feeds here at GL in plain view.
Dave, I agree with your statement that I do have the choice to both use the site in the first place and also in how I choose to deal with those people on my friends list. Facebook has been very helpful to me in some aspects - considering I've lived in more countries in the past 10 years than people have taken a shit in that time, it's a very useful way for me to keep up with friends old and new. A major issue I face, and I fully realise that it is solely my issue, is that I feel both guilty at the thought of hiding someone's posts and worry that I will miss something of interest to me or important to a friend. Don't even get me started on deleting people. I can't see me ever having the guts to do that unless you knock me up and stick me with 100k in bills. Again, totally my own lack of ballsiness coming to the forefront here.
I think what's finally tipped me over the edge is that these social networking sites seem to bring out the narcissist in a lot of people. Along with that is that some people choose to use it as a vomit pool for any thought that crosses their mind. Maybe it's just my problem. The sad realisation that when I peel back the layers of some of my friends the gloss wears off no matter how they conduct themselves professionally and in social situations, and irregardless of how long I've known them. On a forum I don't care how silly, immature, uneducated or simply misguided one presents themselves. At the end of the day, other than the people I've spoken to off of a forum environment everyone is just a name and an avatar. I didn't choose you and you didn't choose me so your effect on my life is literally zero. But this whole sharing every single thing, 24 hours a day, just seems bizarre to me. What's the point of my going to meet you for a drink when I already know the toppings you've had on your pizza last night, that you've ditched Colgate for Crest and you have an ingrown toenail?
Facebook is becoming a parralel Internet. It's a monster. Companies are using it and Twitter as their main target for advertising.
It's OK Shari. I know these tennis bets are stressing you out. I almost had a meltdown last night betting on a football game. Gambling does weird things to your state of mind.
Dave - thank you for the advice. I can admit I probably won't have the guts to delete anyone for awhile but I guess I really do have to start hiding people at the very least. Any benefits I realise from the site have started to become grossly outweighed by the annoyance I feel whenever I log in and that's just not cool.
Nope, never lived there. Have visited there though - I'm half Ukrainian so I took a trip when I was living in Europe.
Did someone say I did??!
Facebook is more trouble. That's my point. If I haven't spoken to someone in years, I have ways to look them up or get their number from someone. And if that's the case, I probably won't speak to them much in the future either. The extra few minutes it takes to get their contact information is a lot less than the time I would have collectively spent on Facebook. If I have spoken to them recently, they're in the address book of my phone and I'll just text or give them a call. I have absolutely no use for it.
But I'm curious. At what point do you think it's more practical to use Facebook to communicate something to someone than a phone call or text? Maybe, I'm just not that social and I figure that many people are like me and don't care about my trivial day to day happenings.
Monkey wanker has a point: if you are as anti-social as he is, why spend time at a pro-social site?
He only posts at sports forums to throw shit at folks, so on facebook they'd simply remove him as a "friend."
'No one is going to give a fuck' where you post at all and it's nice that you choose to post here. Off the top of my head there are three professional gamblers posting here as well as The Legendary Tomato who bets anything, including tennis, aside from his proper job. If you want more tennis content then please start a thread, there are enough real (as opposed to pretend) gamblers here who might be interested in what you have to say.
MF, did you talk to inthehole at last years bash?