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HUGH NEWS: GL Baby Matty is on the way!! His boys can swim!!

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i have to question a broad who agrees to try and get knocked up on purpose...before getting married

does she know about a secret inheritance or something??? after the kid, i would sleep with 1 eye open, matty...
 
:lol: hey, its just an observation... i mean think about it... how many women do you know that would agree to this? when you are married, the kid/s are a solid reason to stay together when turmoil arises and work extra hard on the situation... when you are single, its seems to be much easier to just say "fuck it" and leave

im sure yall have talked about marriage and all and she expects to be asked, just very odd to agree to try and have something as life changing as a child beforehand..

i need answers, matty... what was the thought process here?
 
She didn't really want to have a kid before marriage. Why she caved in I don't know. I certainly didn't pressure her, I just told her it was very common for lifelong couples with kids to not be married in Quebec. Marriage is an afterthought to most, including yours truly.

Being married doesn't solidify a shaky relationship, unless you're an extreme religious nut. I know you're thinking about spousal alimony in case of divorce. Whatever. The kid will be taken care of by both of us no matter what, and I'm not having a kid with a housewife - she's a fokken brain doctor. She's gonna make more money than me soon enough.

:cripwalk:

Where I come from a baby's a bigger commitment than a piece of paper. I understand the conservative/anglo-puritan rationale, but like my Dad once said, I'd rather have a limb amputated than go through another divorce. That made an impression on me, but maybe not in the way you'd expect.

I will marry her (I got a setting on order, just looking for the stone now), but my thinking was, yeah, I want to have kids with that girl.

The rest is just a matter of common decency.

:hattip:
 
oh i hear ya, i could def. have a kid without being hitched and i wasnt judging at all, dont think that :cheers:

interesting about quebec :yes: .. you wont find many places here in the states like that and even more uncommon for a woman to agree to have a kid out of wedlock unless she plans on being a single mom and is just going through a midlife crisis thing....just another of the many cultural differences i suppose
 
Yeah I'm feeling the culture clash big time right now. Just thinking of the eventual wedding is making my head spin. My family is straight working class, most of them don't speak a word of English, so there's no way I'm getting married in Ontario. Which means that the woman's family will have to drive/fly to Quebec. They're all conservative country bumpkins who don't speak a word of French. Needless to say, both families will meet for the first time at the wedding.

Oh God. What have I done.
 
The woman seems to like all the very common French names. :facepalm: I'm not calling my daughter Isabelle, it's ultra-common in QC.

Her second choice is Mathilde. I don't hate it. That would make her Matty Jr.

I kinda like Louis for a guy. I dunno. My last name matches well with any English or French name.
 
Matty
Yeah I'm feeling the culture clash big time right now. Just thinking of the eventual wedding is making my head spin. My family is straight working class, most of them don't speak a word of English, so there's no way I'm getting married in Ontario. Which means that the woman's family will have to drive/fly to Quebec. They're all conservative country bumpkins who don't speak a word of French. Needless to say, both families will meet for the first time at the wedding.

Oh God. What have I done.
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This works out fine. They can't communicate so they don't even try.
 
Matty
Yeah I'm feeling the culture clash big time right now. Just thinking of the eventual wedding is making my head spin. My family is straight working class, most of them don't speak a word of English, so there's no way I'm getting married in Ontario. Which means that the woman's family will have to drive/fly to Quebec. They're all conservative country bumpkins who don't speak a word of French. Needless to say, both families will meet for the first time at the wedding.

Oh God. What have I done.
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Now that should be interesting, to say the least! You might wanna hire a translator or two, other wise you might spend your entire wedding playing the middle man! Good luck with that!
 
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