Boys I need chick advice

[Fu Manchu]

there are certainly ways you can text her or email her which will not sound desperate/needy and will make her think it's no big deal.

 

[MonkeyF0cker]

this is more like beagling than a chess game in my opinion. id wait a few days and text her for sure.

Everything is a game, Fishy.

 

[Fu Manchu]

you dont consider beagling a game?

 

[MonkeyF0cker]

there are certainly ways you can text her or email her which will not sound desperate/needy and will make her think it's no big deal.

He's FAR better off making her come to him at this point.

 

[Fu Manchu]

yeah. i mean i totally understand what youre saying about not wanting to seem needy, which is why i recommended him to wait awhile before contacting her.

 

[MonkeyF0cker]

you dont consider beagling a game?

No. Things generally aren't as simple as knocking a girl over the head and dragging her home.

 

[Fu Manchu]

No. Things generally aren't as simple as knocking a girl over the head and dragging her home.

oh. i was using blitty's method of picking up women.

 

[MonkeyF0cker]

yeah. i mean i totally understand what youre saying about not wanting to seem needy, which is why i recommended him to wait awhile before contacting her.

Well, if he's going to contact her first, then waiting a while is the best option. But I think if he has any shot at her, he has to let her make the move from here.

 

[MonkeyF0cker]

oh. i was using blitty's method of picking up women.

 

[MonkeyF0cker]

I think if he contacts her from here, he gets put in the friend zone at best.

 

[Fu Manchu]

always a chance of that. but if he doesnt hear from her by say thursday or friday i think hes best off rolling the die and texting her something like "ill be at ____ later if you want to meet up for a drink"

 

[MonkeyF0cker]

I just don't see it working. He's essentially already done that. She has to get back to him.

 

[Fu Manchu]

let this be a lesson to everyone.

stiff my boy shantystar and he will summon the twelve planetary gods to doom your love life.

 

[MrX]

If you want to end up with someone you have to play games with your whole time together, then play it like a game.

If not, just do what comes natural and don't sweat it if she's not interested.

 

[MonkeyF0cker]

If you want to end up with someone you have to play games with your whole time together, then play it like a game.

If not, just do what comes natural and don't sweat it if she's not interested.

Normally, I'd agree with that. However, impressions are generally pretty fragile when you first meet someone. It's one thing to be real with someone. It's another to try to force something.

 

[roguejuror]

eagerly awaiting mrsx response

 

[Saulty]

Pally at this point the only strategy that I see has a chance of working is you sending her on fb your own nudes. Since she's an artist she may use you as a model. So you can use that in your email when you send her the nudes. Basically invide yourself over to her studio.

 

[Matty]

What Monkey said, then what MrX said. But first and foremost, get a prescription for anti-anxiety meds. Seriously.