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When I think about trust I immediately think of cheating. I know there is much more to trust than fidelity but that's where my mind takes me.

When it comes to cheating I think more than not women "trust" their spouse won't cheat on them and men for the most part "expect" that their mate won't cheat.


You are never more vulnerable than when you love someone unconditionally but you are never more free either. At the same time though you are never more secure than when you are loved unconditionally.
 
Bay Bud
if love is only to be explained with one word, that word is 'unconditional'.
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I disagree with that too. While the concept of unconditional love may work in bad poetry, in reality it is pretty weird when you think about it.

I believe love is based on attractions and compatibilities. There are conditions. There is discrimination. There could and should be a certain amount of compromise but unconditional? That's like psychosis.


If someone loved me unconditionally, I would not feel loved at all. Their feelings have nothing to do with who I am. They would be like some weird stalker computer program.
 
Mudcat
I disagree with. I think you are probably taking something personal and projecting it as a blanket statement.

For many people, there is love.
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Mudcat
I disagree with that too. While the concept of unconditional love may work in bad poetry, in reality it is pretty weird when you think about it.

I believe love is based on attractions and compatibilities. There are conditions. There is discrimination. There could and should be a certain amount of compromise but unconditional? That's like psychosis.

If someone loved me unconditionally, I would not feel loved at all. Their feelings have nothing to do with who I am. They would be like some weird stalker computer program.
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one could argue that you are "taking something personal," such as your definition of bad poetry or the creepy feelings of an internet stalker, and projecting them as a blanket statement about a word or an emotion that have no single or finite definitions
 
wal66
When I think about trust I immediately think of cheating. I know there is much more to trust than fidelity but that's where my mind takes me.
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That's probably because in most relationships, cheating is considered the ultimate betrayl.

To me, cheating is something many people do and is forgivable if the cheater is remorseful and fully understands the impact of their actions, which in most cases prevents them from repeating their thoughtless behavior.
 
I believe in LOVE. I believe in many kinds of love

I don't believe in "in love" and "falling in love"

I think the belief in those ideas and the portrayal/misrepresentation of those myths in movies and tv are really doing a disservice to the viewers over time
 
Archie
I believe in LOVE. I believe in many kinds of love

I don't believe in "in love" and "falling in love"

I think the belief in those ideas and the portrayal/misrepresentation of those myths in movies and tv are really doing a disservice to the viewers over time
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Silly cunt, if you wanna continue "dickie dunking" with Big Al DO NOT let her read this thread.

Common!
 
Archie
she agrees

she's not some girly girl
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Arch, does she have any good looking friends that would like to meet an overweight, middle aged, balding, well endowed (but not as big as yours) RICH Canadian at Lake of the woods Minnesota/Ontario?

After we drink beers with Stu we could fukk our girls together.
(I mean at the same time, not in the same room, unless you and Big Al would like that.)

:betplom:
 
well, none that will be taking that week off and coming with us. first of all its a 17 hr drive for us.

second of all most of her hottest single friends are in pittsburgh and cleveland area.


but. if you do find someone. my friend has this one cabin on his island that has an attic. where you climb a ladder and its like two lofts. one on the right and one on the left. mattresses on the floor. hot as fuk up there.

but having a synchronized banging would be nice up there. with a friend in the adjoining attic room.

I lose 4lbs from just sleeping up there over the night.

7 lbs if I fok before sleeping. only two little tiny windows and a fan
 
Archie
well, none that will be taking that week off and coming with us. first of all its a 17 hr drive for us.

second of all most of her hottest single friends are in pittsburgh and cleveland area.


but. if you do find someone. my friend has this one cabin on his island that has an attic. where you climb a ladder and its like two lofts. one on the right and one on the left. mattresses on the floor. hot as fuk up there.

but having a synchronized banging would be nice up there. with a friend in the adjoining attic room.

I lose 4lbs from just sleeping up there over the night.

7 lbs if I fok before sleeping. only two little tiny windows and a fan
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Tell her I'm funny (but not as funny as I like to think Bread thinks I'm funny).

Tell her I've been locked up, good looking broads like "bad boys".

Arch, help a nigger out here pal.

Remember:
Middle aged, balding, overweight, funny (but not very), felon, nice kok, money.
How could an American girl refuse?

PS: Don't be surprised if Rubyn contacts you to bring her up to meet me at the lake, now that she's free of the anchor she is prolly craving some Plommer.
 
I have thought I was in love many times in life. I have been heartbroken when things didn't work out and lonely when I was single. There were times when I was with one girl and wanted to be with somebody else. Many times I found out the wrong way that the grass wasn't always greener on the other side. Fortunately for me those false loves never worked out and I have found the person that I was meant to be with. Do I believe that we all have that one soul mate out there? No, completely disagree with that thought. To me, love is all about respect. My wife and I share the utmost amount of respect for one another. We respect each other for who we are and do not ask the other to be somebody we are not. She has become my best friend and I am reminded of it constantly. She goes out of her way to do things for me and I try to reciprocate whenever possible. We enjoy being with each other and when we have our disagreements we always discuss them without letting them fester. We don't ask each other for permission to do things, we discuss our intentions and then make decisions with the other person in mind. I screw up from time to time, but I am not ridiculed or "punished" for my actions. We haven't been together forever like Mr./Mrs. Monkey, but I am confident that our LOVE will remain because our relationship is built on a strong foundation of trust, respect and friendship.
 
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I think McB has a great perspective on things.....

I prob never would have gotten married. if Big Al wasn't my best friend for like 2 years first.

we took a nice 3-4 year wait on the wedding thing, after we first hooked up...

we are sure that we are still best friends...

and we still like to experiment with our bodies.

she makes me better....... I at least keep her at the same level. I don't hit her, cheat on her, and I buy things for her and make her laugh.

its a nice trade off....


without her all the things I do would be alot alot alot more dull
 
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