Objectification of sex and members of the opposite sex - Disassociating From Emotion

[FreeFall]

plommer I have done all four of those.

Can you give me to secrets to true love already?

 

[betplom]

plommer I have done all four of those.

Can you give me to secrets to true love already?

If I give them to you then they won't be secrets anymore.

Besides, what kind of Yank are you anyway? Only fukkin commies want things freely given to them.

 

[reno cool]

some interesting points there Plomber. I like the idea about humor especially.
but women expect to be treated like this. If you're not full of shit they're not gonna understand where you're coming from.

 

[betplom]

Reno, I enjoy learning about myself and my nature, sometimes I find answers in the wisdom of others.

After reading this article I find I can identify with much of whats been written, and not in a flattering way.

I am imperfect. I seek enlightenment.


"Generally, the more resentment one is harboring towards the opposite sex, the more one objectifies them. Men who had turbulent relationships with their mothers, men who were left by their wives or girlfriends, or men who were tormented by women growing up, these men will likely find it much easier and more enticing to objectify and measure their sex lives than to confront their demons and overcome their emotional scars with the women they become involved with."

^^^^
Reading this made me cringe, horrifyingly accurate description of me.

 

[reno cool]

I hear you pal. The older I get the less defensive I feel I have to be. If there is some insight thats interesting but makes me look less flattering so be it. Maturity kind of fun in some ways.