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stevek173

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Gamelive I want to open this up for conversation as I don't feel it's ever been fully discussed here and it probably should be when a few of us are in the dating scene if you will. Many of you know my background with this subject as my only experience with this recently was with Trista, and when things came to fruition I found myself fucking her a lot and doing everything possible not to meet the kids. In the end holiday season came around, I neglected to come up and a guy came along who was into the whole scene and that was that.

There was one a long time ago, kind of a similar situation, but for her she hid the kid existed from me and would party all the time and when I she told me about it and wanted me to meet the kid I told her to take a hike.

Now in my travels I find that the ones I get the most feedback from online are either 1) totally busted up to the point where they are not dateable or 2) kind of cute but have at least one kid. Obviously when I am in the sticks like I am the pickings are slimmer so a lot of it is just supply and demand.

My stance is I cannot stand kids. Sure if they want to play I'll throw the football around or what not but as soon as it's crying/whining time I am fucking out of there. Their shouts/cries are ear piercing and where as I do understand and even admire to an extent other people's affection for them it is not for me. This conversation is not aimed to be as much about feeling as kids though as it is dating people who already have kids. Is it something you would consider? Why or why not?

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I married my wife and step-children. I treat them as my own. We dated for several months before I met them. I didn't want to get too involved before I knew there was a potential future for us. I love kids Steves, which I'm sure made the transition easier, but had I bailed because of the children I would have missed out on the best part of my life.

The Midwest is slim pickens for quality single women without children and unless you relocate to an area where there is a bigger contingent of women that have delayed starting families to get into their careers, you might have to start loving them darn anklebiters.
 
I have children, but if I was single and looking to bang a chick on a regular basis and possibly date, then I wouldn't have a thing to to with a chick who had young children living at home. Do you really want to be pounding the guts out of some MILF who's child is down the hallway or at least in the house. That's fucked up.

Stay away from chicks with children Stevie. All they want is a dude to become emotionally attached to their children and that ends up costing the dude in the end. Th echicks want a dude to be a father figure and help pay the bills. It's not your responsibility to raise another dude's children and help pay the bills. Stay the fuck away and just bang whores like Plommer does.
 
I married my wife and step-children. I treat them as my own. We dated for several months before I met them. I didn't want to get too involved before I knew there was a potential future for us. I love kids Steves, which I'm sure made the transition easier, but had I bailed because of the children I would have missed out on the best part of my life.

The Midwest is slim pickens for quality single women without children and unless you relocate to an area where there is a bigger contingent of women that have delayed starting families to get into their careers, you might have to start loving them darn anklebiters.

Yeah it's like that out here too. I mean there are ones from Pittsburgh who like you said are more career girls but that's like 2 hours away which becomes a nuisance. I've talked to a couple form around here but they all have that fucking inbred look. You might be right I might have to open my doors a little and at least consider the possibility, not in a Plommer way either.